Ok we’ll I’m one of those guys in the bad crowd I’ll say..But i like the crowd I’m with. My mom “thinks” I’m a great kid, and all and i just want to change but i can’t. I used to get punished when i was younger and on a good path and would learn from the punishments. I just kinda think now my mom isn’t really doing that because she doesn’t see my life, and i just needed advice? I hurt peoples feelings, insulted peoples kids, broke up multiple relationships(sneakingly with me behind everything without people knowing i was involved), got involved in a gang(out now), skipped school, got pressured into weed (only 2 puffs 2 different times), etc Alot of stuff. I even insulted this gang member girls dead mother who lives in a different state. I usually attempt to stop when i “think” I’m about to get in trouble but..when i don’t i go and take another chance.
I don’t know how i got here and so careless. I’d like to change or be punished or whatever but I don’t really know. By the way guys I’m a submissive type of guy, so I’m not one of those violent people. I’m not submissive around society just females in person, boys I don’t really start problems with, I’m known as the guy always joking around…
Anyways i was talking to someone and he suggested joining a domestic discipline relationship? He said it’s not sexual & it will help. I’m interested..
I’ve just been doing really bad sneakishly things..any suggestions? I’m not asking my mom for help, so no advice on it. isn’t there like a program i can join? You get punished or what ever or u want to change but are more in the influence of not? Oh and I’m not joining boot camp or none of that..
I always hated corporal punishment, but I’m willing to accept that if that’s what will help me change, it always did when i got it. Now i find the stuff i do funny, back then i would of thought it was messed up…Serious answers only.
any program or something?
Oh and for you nuisances who say physical punishment is abusive its NOT. I would know if i got it, i believe lots of people who aren’t getting it that i know should have.
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Well it’s a great thing you have noticed the faults you wish to change and doing so will help you change them. Change of mind, Change of heart. Honestly even though you say you don’t wish to go through “boot camp” i think it’s your best option any military branch will provide discipline you need to fix all this mess you have brought on yourself. Good luck to you keep your head up.
Dude! Admitting it is only the first step. Congrats for that one.
I can TOTALLY relate to so many things you’ve done. Somewhere deep in that soul, there’s a good person, but then it’s hard to bring him/her out.
Hang around with positive people. To be positive, you gotta think positive, and to think positive, you gotta surround yourself with positive, and so on.
Im sure there are programs out there, but remember, don’t try to have the world change you. Only you know your faults, and why you want to change them. Learn from that, and go forward.
OH AND GUESS WHAT… One of these days, not to long from now, you will have something or someone to change for, and all the program stuff will be unnecessary. If you still need it, well, good to know you still want to try.
Try volunteering with sick kids that are dying of cancer. You see enough REAL innocence die with people more courageous than anyone you could ever see or imagine where you’ve been. You could also try joining the army and learn some self discipline and get a career out of the deal.