Ok.. My ex and I have been “together” for 7 months. We have broken up around 4 times. We say we love each other but the truth is I don’t know what love is.. He cheated on me 4 times in 1 week. One of which was with my “best” friend. But every time we got back together and worked our problems out and as soon as it seemed like everything was going great something new would come up. He never took me on dates, I always had to drive to his house or pick him up to come to mine, he drinks even though I beg him not to, he even got sent to boot camp for being in a fight a few years ago. My friends tell me he’s not worth it and that I can do better than him.. I think that’s because he is Mexican though. This boy and me have started talking since the last time we broke up (when he cheated on me) and I think we have worked everything out.. He asked me to go to the movies this weekend and he said he would drive. He hasn’t been in a fight for over 3 months, and he hasn’t drank or gone to parties for a while. He is the sweetest guy that I know and he knows me more than anyone; he pays attention to me. He has never laid a hand on me and he always stops being ‘physical’ when I ask him to. I think he got the hint that if he chooses to not change anything than he will lose me for good… so now my problem is: Should I consider taking him back and go out with him this weekend, or should I kick him to the curb and leave him there?
I’m sorry that this was so long. I had to fit as much as I could in for you to get an idea of him.. Thank you. 
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speaking from a mans point of view, if i were you id ditch him. sorry but hes not going to change. just my 50 cents…